Trust=No Trust

Well, another day go on. It happened that I'm the bad guy.

Sometimes I'm a good listener, most of the time. But may be my mouth just ain't good enough. I am the guy who understand others but too kind. I listen to others but at the same time when I feel not right about it, I will try to warn others. That actually change the good guy status of myself.

Very Sarcastic right, that's the real world. Where misunderstanding happens all around.  Whenever people begin to misunderstood each other, that's where the trust become less. From my point of view, NEVER EXPLAIN is the best solution. People tend to think differently whenever we try to explain. More conflict will be shown when you explain.

But being a silence-person when you're discovered as back-stab-er doesn't mean you can run away with things. People just have good memories whenever they having misunderstand. All the old-times-folk story came out, blaming each other, shouting out of their throat trying to show how nice are they.

All of that are just bull-shit. In my previous post, I had mentioned that things happened with because of everyone. I mean EVERYONE!!! No matter what, humans are creature who are selfish in some way. For example, when a picture of group photos came out, which part of the photo you will look at? Obviously is yourself. So don't bull-shit that you aren't selfish person.

Although I said never explain is best solution, but the word SORRY still needed in some way. Just a simple apologize without any explanation will show people how sincere you are. At the same time, it shows that you care about them.

Being human aren't as easy as you think, communicating skills are important in all kind of situation. So LIVE with it.