SOPHISTICATED

May be some of you do not know about what are the main point I want to touch about sophisticate, but sometimes things are like that, people tend to do something, but it always came out that the results are different from the expectations yet still maintained at a satisfactory level. Why this situation happens? Is it a must that people couldn’t do things as their expectations? That’s why I touch about sophisticate today.

From my point of view, every person born to this world is a sophisticated person as all of us are equipped with a few different types of personal skills which aren’t shared with other individuals in the world. That particular skill helps us and makes us extraordinary which help me on explaining about sophisticate. Some people do not know about such special skill which they have, not yet may be. This skill will come to us somehow in some way in a special way by any time.

One of the very common special abilities of human, of course through my experience, I think is about verbal abilities. I have heard people said that women usually have better verbal usage than men; this is because words came from them usually having multi/triple/quad meanings in it. Which is because of this indifferent within men and women, they usually claimed that the opposite sex couldn’t understand what they trying to imply. I think that is quite a big problem as how could men can understand women when their words have different meaning than what men used or vice-versa.

Second ability that is another common ability shared by most individual is the acting abilities. When I read back on the history, I have to admit that I respect them a lot as whenever they have made their mind, they stick to it. Nowadays people do not have such faith in their selves, most of time, they do not do as they told or lies covering lies action. Most of the time, everyone of us is the best actor when we try to lie about something, or even show them our real personalities, but people still think we are the good guy or doing things because forced. What a pathetic world.

Third ability I will tell you my ability. I have discovered it lately, but I do not see it commonly. May be it is not common, or it is too special, or people do not want people know that they can do it. My ability is I can feel other people feelings, no matter how they try to cover it, no matter how much acting skills they used, I still can feel it, and most of the time I was correct. Whenever a person is not happy, I can feel it, and I will try to ask them about it. Don’t ever think this ability is nice, all the people like to have their privacy stayed by themselves, and they do not like it when people read their heart like a book. This actually causes problems for me when I try to communicate further with people.

After I gave a few examples, do you discover that you have some special abilities by yourself too? May be yes, may be no. If no please do not feel down, I believe that one day you will discover it, or you may already has it, just that you do not know it is.

How to LIVE!!!!

Dulu Kita Satu Jiwa, Satu Impian.

(We Once Shared A Soul, Sharing The Same Dream)

Susah dan Senang Kita Bersama.

(Sticked Together No Matter Anything Happened)

Namun, Itu Semua, Hanya Sementara

(However, All That Lasted Only For Awhile)

Life is like a roller coaster which planted with lots of up and down, sometimes there are even path spinning upside down, making people feel the fear of it. Many things in the world, where we do not see much, yet it happen around us. We are lucky that most of us were raised under protected, planned environment by our parents. We start to think that life wasn't that complicated after all.

Life, as usual, we should learn ourselves to get a living in it. Being successful in this global aren't just being good in things, but communications among people too are important. God created people around the world for a reason. We should make good relationships with them. Interpersonal communications are usually defined  by communication scholar in numerous ways, usually describing participants who are dependent upon one another and have a shared history.

First and forever true fact about relationship among humans are about friends. Everyone of us have friends. Doesn't mean that he/she is nice to you that they are your friend. We are saying about good friends, trusted friends!!! Trough my experience, the friend who are nice to you always, who stayed with you all the time, 78.6% they are the one who be-trait you. In another hand, the one you hated, which irritated you, which wanted your attentions on them, they might be your true friends. In the end, I bet most of us have a good friend but once we never expected they are the ones. 

Second relationship is about Love. The one which you think may be the one who stayed with you all the time, who listens to you all time, supports you no matter what happened. This one person, trust me, it's not only one, God knows us well, all of us are greedy, that's why he gave us a few choices. No matter which one we choose, we should stay our faith by them. Cause whenever you do not trust a person, they will not give their faith to you too. The law of nature has shown us that people are tested with a lot of consequences  before they can achieve their goal.


The above two are most concerned subjects by people. So whichever you think you are weak at, from now on (not tomorrow, not later, BUT NOW) , please enhance yourself with it. Please do not give reasons, cause everything are set by God, but we are the one who choose the path ourselves, so do not blame anyone for what had happened.  

Life Sux!

No matter up or down, it's still a continuous process as time will not wait for anyone in the world. Not unless you can time stop and time traveled like the show HEROES.

My advice to take everything no matter up or down with full hearted because sometimes the chance to show you certain situations are only once in a life time. So please get yourself prepared for the unpredicted but unique situations.

Most of the time, simple advice will be remembered. So I let you all think about it yourself.

Friends

All our experience with history should teach us, when we look back, how badly human wisdom is betrayed when it relies on itself


No matter where we are, no matter how successful we are, we are still learning. There are one thing that we learned from time to time. Which is to make friends. Pathetic but true indeed. Friends are everything other than our own family, because they are the one who supported us in all ways.


A friend isn't hard to get, but if you wanted a good friend, it would have to see how you performed. Most of the time, being friends with some other people is just easy, but the circumstances come after it just not as easy as you though. Friends are meant to be betrayed and being used. Usually most people will said that.


I'm telling you that you are wrong, no matter how your friend betrayed you, the biggest damage are still towards himself. Being in an relationship among friends is not as easy as 2+2. It is more like add maths, function where you need to substitute different kind of equation is different kind of situation. So whenever someone try to ruined the law of nature, he or she will get the pain himself.


Friends are not easy to get. But doesn't mean you have to guard up yourself towards everyone. Enjoying and understanding different kind of personalities among humans is a very interesting topic we can enjoy in life, where i believe everyone liked it. But as I said, people changed their mind every milliseconds. Having some self defense is just a proper way to live.

The Day We Birth

How do you expect me to remember your birthday, when you never look any older?


I love the quote above. Sweet. Haha.




Seems like everyone just think that birthday is a big day. I do not know if I like birthdays, but I know it's just my responsibilities to remember my friend's birthday and celebrate it with them. The main purpose of this is to let your friend know that you still remember them in some way.




Well, that was the past. Now days, with the helps of FaceBook and more than 87.5% people around global owned an account of it, it's not actually hard to memories their birthday after all. Although a wall post of wishing seems cool, but isn't calling or messaging the person seems more caring?




Another point of view from me about birthday, birthday aren't suppose to be a celebration and happy day but a day for us to remember about the pain of the one who give birth to us. Having a baby needs more than 32 weeks in a woman and needs good effort to birth it. Aren't we suppose to be thankful to them who suffer for these but not having celebration on that day.




But after all, if I keep my view on myself, I will seriously be known as the weird one. Surviving in this world basically is not about how special you are and how you live with it, but how convincing you are. When you have a point on your own, and you can get some people to stay their faith with it, then congratulations for showing your extraordinary living skills.




After all, birthdays are meant to celebrate, in my world. So I celebrated it.




The END of the story.

Trust=No Trust

Well, another day go on. It happened that I'm the bad guy.

Sometimes I'm a good listener, most of the time. But may be my mouth just ain't good enough. I am the guy who understand others but too kind. I listen to others but at the same time when I feel not right about it, I will try to warn others. That actually change the good guy status of myself.

Very Sarcastic right, that's the real world. Where misunderstanding happens all around.  Whenever people begin to misunderstood each other, that's where the trust become less. From my point of view, NEVER EXPLAIN is the best solution. People tend to think differently whenever we try to explain. More conflict will be shown when you explain.

But being a silence-person when you're discovered as back-stab-er doesn't mean you can run away with things. People just have good memories whenever they having misunderstand. All the old-times-folk story came out, blaming each other, shouting out of their throat trying to show how nice are they.

All of that are just bull-shit. In my previous post, I had mentioned that things happened with because of everyone. I mean EVERYONE!!! No matter what, humans are creature who are selfish in some way. For example, when a picture of group photos came out, which part of the photo you will look at? Obviously is yourself. So don't bull-shit that you aren't selfish person.

Although I said never explain is best solution, but the word SORRY still needed in some way. Just a simple apologize without any explanation will show people how sincere you are. At the same time, it shows that you care about them.

Being human aren't as easy as you think, communicating skills are important in all kind of situation. So LIVE with it.

Life Which Make Us Confuse!

There are different type of people all around the world. Kind, Nice, Bad, Fake, Happy, Sad, Confusing, Sophisticated and much much more. We will not really know about what people think or what are they really up to, we just know that as long as their existence help us in our life, we have to live with it.


Among all type of people, the type of people I seriously do not like is the Drama King type. I'm sure a lot of people have heard of Drama Queen where a person who is totally making faces all around. Allow me to explain about what is Drama King. Drama King is a person who liked to come out with reasons, lying here and there, twisting other people words into another story.


The main reason this kind of people performing such attitude mainly are selfish and doing it for the fun of theirs. These people do not fucking care about other people, what they care is just about their life. I do not favorite such people as they are really irritating in some way. Most of them are full of egoistic where us as friends wanted to advice but seems like fool to them.


There is once I get into such personalities people. Where he seems so nice at the starting, smiling all the time, innocent yet filled with knowledge. After some time, he becoming weirder and weirder. He is always covering his mistakes with lies, one after another, bigger lies after it. But he acted normal, where he thinks that everyone trust them. In his eyes, he always think that he is the special one. To me, I think he is just like other normal people.


I tried talking to him, but he seems ignoring. Days by days, the one who are friends with him started to avoid him. He still act like nothing happened. I feel sad for him, wanted to advice him on it, he just keep quiet after it but repeating the same after it. I felt so tired being friends with such person where he do not even care about people who cares about him. He just think he is the best.


Hereby, I prayed for him if someone can stand him and take him as friend in the future.